Showing posts with label wedding anniversary. Show all posts
Showing posts with label wedding anniversary. Show all posts

Sunday, February 8, 2026

14th Wedding Anniversary

I cannot believe it has been 14 years!

Let me not to the marriage of true minds
Admit impediments. Love is not love
Which alters when it alteration finds,
Or bends with the remover to remove:

O no! it is an ever-fixed mark
That looks on tempests and is never shaken;
It is the star to every wandering bark,
Whose worth's unknown, although his height be taken.

Love's not Time's fool, though rosy lips and cheeks
Within his bending sickle's compass come;
Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,
But bears it out even to the edge of doom.

If this be error and upon me proved,
I never writ, nor no man ever loved.

- Sonnet 116, William Shakespeare

 



















Thursday, February 6, 2025

Grand Cayman Diving

It has been a long time since Hannah and I did some "leisure, non-stressful, warm water" dives in the ocean. In fact, according to our record, the last time we dove in warm waters of Caribbean was on Hannah's 21st birthday. Two years ago, we had planned for this trip to Grand Cayman Island, but was cancelled last minute (we were literally ready to board the plane from Florida to Grand Cayman!) due to a storm that caused some damage to the resort that we were staying. After postponing and anticipating eagerly for a whole year, we are finally here to celebrate our 13th year wedding anniversary- Grand Cayman.

We are staying and diving with Living The Dream Divers (https://www.livingthedreamdivers.com/). It is such a welcoming weather, with the warmth and sunshine, coming from the frigid winter in Kansas.We are staying in the Angel Fish Cabana, which is a one-bedroom apartment, with a kitchen, living room, balcony and even an outdoor bath. There is also a saltwater pool for the residents to use, but most of our time were spent diving in the ocean!

Even through transport is provided to bring us to and from the dive shop/ boat, we chose to rent a car the whole time we are in Grand Cayman. This allowed us to go and visit other places during our surface intervals, as well as means to get around the island if we need to buy any groceries. We rented a SUV, while in hindsight, we could have rented a cheaper, smaller car.

When we first checked into the resort, Christian welcomed us with two cold beer. Christian has been working with Living The Dreams for a long time, and is a very funny character. He is also a very accomplished diver, and has been featured in a Suunto advertisement alongside some world famous divers. Hannah and I took no time to get settled in, and started enjoying our beer in the sunshine, eager to start our vacation.


We went to Macabuca (https://www.crackedconch.com.ky/macabuca) for dinner. that evening It is a short 15 mins walk from the resort, and it was highly recommended by Christian. It is a very chilled place, next to the ocean. On Mondays, they have all-you-can-eat BBQ buffet for $22. It is definitely a steal as there is a wide spread of food, from jerked chicken to fish/seafood. I highly recommend this place, especially not to miss the Monday's BBQ Buffet.





After dinner, we went back to the room, and started packing our gear for tomorrow's diving! We are super excited about looking at colorful fishes and corals, while enjoying the warm Caribbean waters! First impression of the diving operation - SUPERB! From the pick-up early in the morning to the end of the dives for that day, we are spoiled! We did not need to carry our own gear, we did not need to change tanks in-between dives, we did not need to wash down our gear after dives, we did not need to do the weird walk to the waters (across the boat) with the heavy tank on our back - all were taken care of! We just need to walk to the edge of the boat, put on our mask and fins, and the crew brings our BCD and tank to us, and help us put it on!!!!! Hannah and I have only heard of this service, but have NEVER experience this. 

First day diving wasn't a great experience for Hannah! She always have challenges with equalizing during her decent, especially on the first few dives. To make things worse, her purge valve on her BCD CAME OFF, and flooded her BCD. We have to call the first dive, and she has to use the crew's back-up BCD for the second dive for the first day! After the first day of diving, we drove around the island, hoping to find a place where they can repair her BCD, but we didn't have any luck. Luckily, a diver from Indepth ( Watersports (https://indepthwatersports.com/) was able to lend us his spare BCD. The day was saved!

We dove for 4 days (8 dives), saw a lo of sea-life (fishes, shrimps, turtles, barracudas etc), healthy corals. However,  my tummy is not feeling good throughout the 4 days, and I feel as if I am suffering from acid reflux on the second dives - Note to self: need to go consult a gastroenterologist. 



On Wednesday (Jan 15) evening, we went to Tukka West Restaurant and Bar (https://west.tukka.ky/) for dinner and drinks. The setting was casual, the food was good (the seafood is definitely very fresh!), and drinks are decent as well. It is quite a drive (almost 30 mins) from the resort, but it is away from the main tourist place (7-mile beach), and thus it is definitely the place to go to to enjoy some peace and quiet, while savoring good food.





On Thursday (Jan 16), we planned for a night shore dive (after our morning boat diving). There are tons of shore diving around Grand Cayman Island, but one that intrigue us is the shore dive from Macabuca - to do a shore diving from a bar? This is the first time 😆 Hannah's plan was to enter the water just before sunset to oriented ourselves in the water, and be able to navigate back to the shore when it is dark. We rented tanks and geared up at Indepth (which is next to macabuca), took pics of ourselves for proof of diving from the bar, and were in the water at 5.15pm. The dive was really nice, with tons of unique structure, corals and fishes. However, the sunset took VERY long, and we were back on the surface even before it got really dark. After talking to a couple of divers who regularly dove this site, we could have waited for another 45 mins more before entering the water. However, the experience of gearing up in scuba gear, walking pass a bar, in and out of the water, while staring by tons of people is definitely an unforgettable experience. And of course, having dinner and a drink immediately after the short dive is the cherry on the cake.






After the last day of diving on Friday (Jan 17), we went to Calypso Grill (https://www.calypsogrillcayman.com/) for our anniversary dinner. Calypso Grill is just located next to the Tukka West Restaurant, and is an award winning restaurant. The setting is very classy, very beautiful. and the food is excellent! We shared a bottle of NZ wine, and reminisced our past 13 years of marriage life together. Again, if you are in Grand Cayman, do not miss this place - need to make a reservation because it is almost always busy, and don't forget their famous Calypso sticky toffee pudding.



We are leaving on Sat (Jan 18), but have a whole morning before our flight. We drove (approximately 1 hour) to Queen Elizabeth II Royal Botanic Park (https://www.botanic-park.ky/?doing_wp_cron=1738856225.4871890544891357421875). It was warm and humid on this day, but we walked around the park, enjoying the different flora, and also paid a quick visit to say hello to the Blue Iguanas in the Blue Iguana Conversation (within the Botanical Park).

Overall cost for this trip :
- Lodging (for 5 nights): ~$1500
- Diving (for 4 days / 8 dives for 2 people): ~$900

Dive sites that we dove
  1. In between
  2. Wild life
  3. Eagle's nest
  4. Oro Verde/ Paradise reef
  5. Neptune's wall
  6. Lone star reef
  7. Turtle reef (shore dive)
  8. Big tunnels (OUR FAVORITE SITE!!!)
  9. Bonnie's arch
We could have save quite a bit of money if we buy groceries and cook, but hey, it's our anniversary and vacation :) 






Saturday, January 21, 2017

Wedding anniversary at Revolution Brewery

Cannot believe that I have been married to this woman for 5 years! It is not always smooth-sailing, not always lovey-dovey, but I believe that we love each other enough to overcome all obstacles in our way. To celebrate our wedding anniversary, we decided to go to Revolution Brewery.

I ordered a couple of glasses of stout, while Hannah enjoyed her pale ale. She ordered a burger to go with her ale, and I had a fried chicken steak. It was a good lunch - we ate, we talked about the future, about the past...

Hannah asked me what I have learnt about myself and her after these five years, and at the moment, I couldn't really think of it - maybe it was the 13% AC stout, or maybe I am just slow :) However, here it is:

After five years, I look at myself, and realize that I am a much better person because of Hannah, but, most times, I do not remember that, sometimes, I forget that! After these five years, I learnt that Hannah is actually a very brave woman - it takes a lot of bravery for her to bear with my erratic temperament, and still wakes up everyday, and say to herself and to me "I love you, you crazy man" :)

Happy anniversary. I love you, woman :)






Monday, January 19, 2015

Happy anniversary baby

I can't believe that 3 years ago I married this amazing woman! Time really flies. It seems that it was only yesterday that we got married at Singapore Botanical Gardens. Unfortunately, due to research commitments, I have to be away in Taiwan, but we promised each other to have a proper celebration when I am back.

Some time ago, a friend asked me are there any changes after we got married. My answer - no. There are no changes - we loved each other for the same thing, we still picked on each other on the same thing, we shared the same passion and we hated the same stuffs. She made me a better person - I am not as critical and judgemental as I was before. I learnt to enjoy life a bit more, and not worry too much about matters that I cannot control. Even my sister said that Hannah was good for me! 

Happy anniversary, baby. I love you.


Sunday, January 20, 2013

One year anniversary


It's hard to believe Hannah and I have been married for a year! We wanted to celebrate the special day with what we love - adventures! The plan was to explore a new rock climbing site on the southern end of Waiheke, snorkel after that when we are hot and sweaty, and then have a picnic at Man-O-War Bay. However, the weather was not cooperating :(

We ended up just staying at home. Hannah made a great dinner consisting of scotch fillet steak, garlic bread and blueberry salad. We even splurged and buy ourselves some fancy wine - $15 red wine from Marlborough (It was discounted...original was $25). We usually just buy $6.99 wine :P

Using every single drop of my creative juice, I wrote Hannah a poem, mounted it in a photo frame - my first year wedding anniversary for her. Grace also brought us an owl oil lamp when she was in NZ as our anniversary present (Thank you, Grace).

Hannah's present

Grace gave this to us when she was in NZ

Fancy wine

Dinner

Hannah is happy :D